8 ways to honor Mr O’Gregor

Forty years ago today, a television program moved from local broadcast to national distribution. I first knew it as Mr O’Gregor’s until my parents had me read the title more closely. Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, as I finally understood it, was my neighborhood and then the neighborhood of our children. In honor of that program, and that ethos, here’s the latest 8 ways list.

  1. As you walk into some familiar place today (work, grocery, home), start humming, “It’s a beautiful day for a neighbor, would you be mine, could you be mine.” Not loud enough for anyone else to hear, but loud enough so that you remember to look for neighbors.
  2. When you get home, change into a comfortable sweater as a way of realizing that you are in a different place, that you  don’t have to use the competitive values of “out there.” Change your shoes, too.
  3. Listen to Yo Yo Ma play anything. The rich melancholy of the cello, which many kids heard for the first time on Mr Rogers, is a perfect soundtrack to the mixture of hope and despair that many of us feel.
  4. In the middle of trying to explain something, consider that Fred Rogers knew that we can emotionally understand emotional issues best in story. The much maligned land of make-believe helped a lot of people understand sadness and love.
  5. Realize that the grocer or the delivery person or the music teacher or the shopowner may actually be working for the king.
  6. Listen for sounds, of trolleys, of fish tanks, of quiet piano jazz, of silence. It’s more rare in our lives now than for Fred, and even he had to resist the temptation to fill time with noise.
  7. Consider the possibility that it really is “a good feeling to know you’re alive.”
  8. Smile. Unconditionally smile. Once. For Fred.

Please won’t you be my neighbor?

For more 8 ways…

To recycle a month
To cross-pollinate your world
To fall off a horse
To audit my (spiritual) time

To waste the month
To waste your blogging time
To ruin your day
To be thanked
To increase your stress

To explain 2.0 friends to 0.0 parents
To lose your faith
To make yourself angry
To make yourself jealous
To make yourself depressed
To ruin your marriage

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4 responses to “8 ways to honor Mr O’Gregor

  1. I’m your neighbor 🙂

  2. Hi Kat. I knew you’d understand.

  3. Thanks for this entirely bright and thought-provoking spot in a day that started out with discomposure of heart, but which has been interjected throughout with what I now recognize as “Mister Rogers moments”–John Greenleaf Whittier worded the effect a little differently: “Drop Thy still dews of quietness, till all our strivings cease; Take from our souls the strain and stress, and let our ordered lives confess the beauty of Thy peace.”

    Glad you guys are still our “neighbors” even though you keep changing “neighborhoods”!

    Oh, and I heartily agree with number 3!

  4. My fave: “Realize that the grocer or the delivery person or the music teacher or the shopowner may actually be working for the king.”

    That changes how I act toward those who are in my daily paths.